How to calibrate a monitor on laptop?

Ok I'm a bit furious about this because this is not a new issue.

Problem 1: I need to calibrate it. Windows is offering a solution - that "questionaire" or what it's called, but it's relying on BUTTONS ON MONITOR.

I have no buttons on monitor. I cannot change any values on the monitor.

Problem 2: even with basic things like the contrast, that I actually can change with the windows calibrating thingy, it looks like my screen is "Stuck" meaning, I change it, it stays changed for a second or two and then switches back to looking like before. Even when I push the contrast bar somwehere else and hit OK, the screen looks the same and when I start the calibration again it is set on the same numbers as before

so I have no idea how can I calibrate it, what do you suggest?
Added (1). I have a Lenovo G580, win7, graphics card: NVIDIA GeForce GT 635M. (I dont know where to find the other stuff) I update the driver for graphics card frequently, everytime an update pops up (there's a program along with it, with alerts)

on the site of Lenovo there is no relevant driver for my laptop to this problem

As I said, I use a calibration system Win provides, it's a form of questionaire where you can adjust the values during those steps. Which doent work, immediately switches back.

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